REINVENT YOURSELF!

Reinvent Yourself & Change Your Alias

Bye-bye Dharma and hello Francesca. Something as simple as a new alias can help formulate a new you. Taking on characteristics that were not a part of Dharma’s persona can be challenging. Though changing your whole mindset to embrace this new identity, sounds insane — it works. Simple belief in self, or “Francesca” can possibly help Dharma succeed if you allow it to.

Reinvent Yourself & Change Up The Routine

First off, why are we stuck in such routines? Why do things for a long period of time if we notice it does not benefit us? Switch it up! Throw something random in the mix. Let us test out how different activities/tasks make us feel. Maybe you skip out on breakfast every morning because you are “not a morning person”; switch it up — I repeat. 

Start with preparing yourself a healthy breakfast for a week straight. Now, DO NOT make change for bullshit! Meaning, do not wake up to have bullshit for breakfast (Eggo’s, Captain Crunch, Toaster Strudels, etc.) If we are going to do it, let us do it for the best and to the best of our abilities. That is fresh fruits, whole grain homemade waffles, yogurt, etc. LET’S GO!

Reinvent Yourself & Create A New Circle Of Friends

Friends can drain you mentally if you allow them to. Doubting your morals, or being stuck in their means with no effort to grow looks to me like GASLIGHTING. Wondering if you did/said something wrong, when in fact you were honest. Or, the desire to be great, and others may not yearn for it as you do or show little to no effort to change their means. FRICTION FRICTION FRICTION, AND IT WON’T WORK. Maybe at another time, our paths shall cross, but no one is guaranteed to be in our life for a lifetime, nor is everyone capable of doing so. Creating new standards, I mean friends; can help you/inspire you to be your greatest self.

Reinvent Yourself & Start A New Creative Venture

That eureka moment, or that idea that you seem to revisit often, START IT. These ideas are not placed in our minds to breathe. What are our manifestations? How will we attain it? The ideas that we have can be the answer in order to achieve such. How could we ever know what could have been, if we do not simply start?

Understanding learning is fundamental, and we do not know all we need to know in order to succeed; makes the learning process easier/exciting. That same excitement can carry on to the very idea that sparked, to proceed and learn it thoroughly, with a sense of excitement — to succeed.

Reinvent Yourself & Wardrobe Change

Hundreds of dollars are not required to change your “look”. For the purpose of this section, “hair” is a part of one’s wardrobe. As hair is so versatile, a simple change of style can make you feel like a brand new being. Change the color, add your new signature accessory, or now you wear fedoras religiously. Some people find a new identity in wearing the same color every day, or the same shade of denim and a standard white T. Therefore, we create it in our minds, call it our own, and we go with it; and STICK WITH IT!

BONUS

LET SOMEONE GO/CUT SOMEONE OFF (WITH REASON)

Like I have mentioned before, not everyone will be equipped to go through life with you. Some people simply have to be left where it lies. Others may serve us no purpose but a gossiping phone call, or a “light up”. True friends are hard to come by, and when you have those; you DO NOT drop them. You should have absolutely no reason to do so whatsoever. When you let go of what no longer serves you, you do in fact make room for what does. Make room for that new individual to help embrace the happiness in your life. Friend, lover, or whomever.

-Malaysia’Monét J

Quote of the Auracle: “You are not the only one that can learn from your struggle!”

-Malaysia’Monét J

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