Your purpose, find it.
Already, If you’re reading this I know you have life goals. It’s damn near ALL I represent. Of the 7 Costs of Success, I am almost sure you can relate to 3 if not all.
For certain I can touch base on all, though I’ve decided to go in-depth on #4 in particular.
Guilt Trip For Not Being Available
It’s phenomenal even so, astounding the greatness that can derive from such devastation.
“Even Bad Times Have Good Things In Them To Make You Feel Alive.”
-Nick Hornby
The past few years have been very trying for us. TRYING to make us give up, TRYING to make us fail, literally TRYING to make us fall apart. Respectfully aside from those with underlying health concerns; it says a lot about those who persevered through such times. NOTE: Discipline is REQUIRED.
Great things come to those who work; THROUGH IT ALL.
Speaking of working
You may be doing a little too much working…(laughs) What is this too much work you speak of? What is this time that you so accessibly have to do absolutely nothing? I want no parts!
You see, I’ve been tested. Things have been taken from me and thankfully I still have my life.
It’s time to buckle down. I cannot and will not try to make every event!
Nor will I pick up every phone call as I receive them
I do not have an interest in sitting on the phone as I did during my High School days. I get antsy, I don’t want to sit on the phone if it’s not a conversation to help make us better. In my opinion, the small chit-chatter shit can wait. By then it probably won’t matter — honestly.
They personalize it….but don’t…
Am I here to essentially rectify all of your personal feelings due to the lack of you finding something you love to spend your days and nights on? Something that you can gain from your pain? Or an award for your boredom? I speak to the highest “let answers, let something forward your way!”
YES, ONLY A FEW FRIENDS IS INDEED CORRECT.
From all those calls you’ve missed, events you had to make an executive decision not to attend; feelings are hurt and relationships are questioned. All because you’ve made it an “OBLIGATION” to be well off, shit; to be SUCCESSFUL.
KEEP DOING IT!
Quote of the Auracle: “Do Not allow them to guilt trip you for not being available — Get Back To Work.”
-Malaysia’Monét J
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