Many of us allow many things/people to prevent us from being great each day. These things can vary, from allowing others to negatively impact us, or being stuck in our feelings, etc. It’s the exterior hardship that we must learn how to get through. The hardship that is brought onto you by your father, your girlfriend, fiancé, child, whomever. We allow difficult times with those mentioned, and others to determine how great we will be in the moment; sometimes for life. It is important that we learn how to delegate our emotions in a fashion that will inspire us. Push us. Motivate us.
First off,
We must stop socializing or even interacting with people who violate or come in contact with our peace. DO NOT TOUCH IT. It is vital to learn how to disregard others and whatever bs/burdens/trauma that they may carry. Learn how to proceed, PROCEED with greatness. EXAMPLE; You have responsibilities at 1 pm, it’s 10 am & your partner & you has had a NASTY argument, DO NOT; I REPEAT DO NOT ALLOW that to drain “The Bag.” Because it can, and for as long as you allow it to; it will.
Reasons I always say, “you must find yourself, and know you before you think you’ve found the one”. In such a chaotic environment, there is no room to create or even an urge to be great. GRANTED, potentially some of us thrive during times like this. Even so, something can have an effect on all of us to drive us to do absolutely nothing. It’s up to us to persevere. It’s up to us to know and verbalize “(INSERT NAME), won’t go hard for me the way I go hard for me!” Nobody got you like you got you.
In Closing
Do not let anyone dictate your greatness or determine your next steps. Especially by the feelings, they haven’t learned to cope with, or so. No matter the obstacles, no matter the argument, no matter the severity, KEEP GOING. YES, YES. We can take hiatuses, but how many do we really need to learn the lesson? We all go through these things; differently, to different extents. This is what makes it OUR story. We are not supposed to learn the same lesson whilst we are here. It’s so funny because the seeds we reap will eventually be sewn whether we like it or not. Therefore, what we do today greatly determines our tomorrow. Who do YOU live for?
-MMJ
Quote of the Auracle: “Misery loves company!”
Thank you for reading, I appreciate you.
You can treat me to a cup of tea if you’d like to. It will go a long way in supporting me as a writer.
If you enjoy my content, you may like my other line of business (no correlation.) Please check it out. 💚
“While You Sleep” Children’s ebook by my daughter & I.
Check Out “Those Bad Habits”